#GLM

I mentioned in my last post that it was strange to discover that many women were still abused, yet kept it a secret; even from friends and family. But as I researched further, I came to understand that some are actually ignorant of the fact that they are in abusive relationships. So, as a build up to my last post, this post briefly highlights some oppressive signs to present pointers and perhaps help someone going through such. Some would wonder why I am passionate about the abuse of women…well of everyone, but I have a softer spot for women because in most cases, they are unable to defend themselves and worse, they are quickly blamed by the society as deserving of whatever woe befalls them. So I use this platform, where I have a little voice, to shout down the oppression of women with the hope that more people will join in this advocacy so we can see all women empowered and live freely!  Also because this can happen to anyone and in fact happens to a lot more than statistics

Can we create an atmosphere for people to freely ask for help? Can we stop being judgmental of someone who has lost her way and help guide them back to the right path…if we know it? Can women feel comfortable with sharing their problems with whomever they choose and not be condemned for it? I found myself mulling these questions over in my mind when I heard the appalling tales of women being abused and oppressed yet being secretive about their situations. First, there is a tale of a well read, relatively exposed husband, beating his wife with a belt! A good looking couple who most people would admire. A young couple who had barely been married for 3 years. Sadly, the lady chose not to share her domestic issues with friends or family until an incident was witnessed by a family member. I can’t but wonder why she chose to keep such a monstrous experience to herself. Perhaps for fear of being mocked or demeaned. It then got me thinking…despite all the awareness on ‘say no to