#GLM

From sleepless nights, two hourly feeding, diaper change, special meal preparations, bottle washing, laundry, hospital appointments, engaging in developmental or educational activities to managing a career, doing house chores, grocery shopping and bill payments. The list is endless actually but we pretty much get the picture of the life of a single mom. She switches between roles within the twinkle of an eye. From serving as the father to being a mother, from teacher to listener, scolder to comforter, mom to friend. She barely has quiet moments and rarely has anyone to rely on when she is feeling lazy or sick. She has to constantly remain enthusiastic and energetic for her kids, yet maintain her enthusiasm for her boss and colleagues. She is forced to learn about all subjects, to help her kids with their assignments, including the most dreaded mathematics! She is a seamstress, cook, maid, gardener, driver, instructor, accountant, hair stylist and many more hidden roles. She is ...

I read an excerpt from the popular book 'Five Love Languages' authored by Dr. Gary Chapman and my...it was an interesting discovery. Apparently, we respond to and show love differently. An action that could be breathe taking to someone may just be an 'ok' gesture for another. It is no wonder people get frustrated in love relationships. You think you have done it all, expressed all the love required for a healthy relationship yet there remains so much anonymity and dissatisfaction in the air.  Gary Chapman explains that the frustrations remain because you are expressing your concept of love to your partner rather than understanding what love is to them and responding accordingly.  A simple way you can understand what love means to your partner is to observe how they express love, what they complain about in the relationship and what they request of their partners. As in communication, if there is no understanding between both parties, you would keep talking jus...