Priceless! The joy of motherhood.

I used to think it was overrated when mothers said you forget all the labor pains and pregnancy woes when you see the face of your newborn. I am a new mom and can confirm that they are definitely right! You forget all the drama and imperfections around you and are filled with so much joy & contentment at the sight of that little one!
Now, there are often mixed feelings when you hold your newborn in your arms for the first time especially if it's your first. From the little fears of holding the baby right to the big task of breastfeeding and sleepless nights. Some women even slip into depression under the pressure because truthfully, life as you knew it is never the same after the baby arrives.
Sometimes you wish you had some lone times to do the things you loved such as sleeping in, going to the movies, going on impromptu vacations, strolling aimlessly around the malls and many more but the needs of your little one trumps any desire you may have.
All it takes is it to look at their cute, innocent and needy faces and all your desires and pursuits melt into caring for them and giving them the best you can in life!
I have been incommunicado for a while trying to get a hang of caring for a newborn. But I think I’m getting there gradually (thank God for my mom’s assistance…lol) so I can resume my other routines.
Introducing Olujimi Yusuf nicknamed Jimi to y’all.
My cutie pie...my pride & joy!

So a big shout out to all the moms for their love, courage and strength in raising their little ones especially the working moms! God will continue to bless and strengthen us all!

Comments

  1. Unknown20 October 2015 at 17:44

    Congratulations dear Funmi! How delightful/joyful it is to watch your seed grow in grace before you daily in your arms. So Priceless! Muaaah..

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  2. Unknown20 October 2015 at 21:46

    Nice 1 Funmi and congratulations on the arrival of your baby....

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  3. Zanny bee21 October 2015 at 01:16

    This cutie is absolutely worth the drama and stress .... Amazing piece, looking forward to the experience ☺

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  4. Unknown21 October 2015 at 03:06

    Congrats.You can say that again.Thanks to grandma and grace from above.Mothehood i can write pages of book on it.

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  5. Unknown21 October 2015 at 23:40

    Very well written piece Funmi👍. The joy of motherhood is indeed priceless!
    My love to Jimi. May he continue to grow in wisdom, knowledge, understanding and all the things of the Lord.

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  6. Unknown22 October 2015 at 00:36

    Nice one Funmile. U said it all n well. Really happy for your new new improved life and the joy of motherhood.

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  7. Unknown22 October 2015 at 00:56

    Really good piece. .makes you appreciate your own parents as well. Our children. .. They are the joys of our lives. May they continue to give us joy

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  8. Funmile22 October 2015 at 17:20

    Thanks everyone! God will continue to bless & keep our kids in Jesus name!

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  9. Unknown24 October 2015 at 03:01

    Well written Fumes... The joy of motherhood is indeed priceless... May our children continue to grow in love, knowledge & understanding. May they fulfill God's ultimate purpose in their lives.. Welcome darling Olujimi... Lots of love.. Tolutope

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